Sugar Baby Terms and Abbreviations

Sugar Baby Terms and Abbreviations

Your sugar baby has just told you, “I have a LBD for you.”? That sounds good, but you probably have no idea what she means.

You’re going to see a lot of unfamiliar terms when you start messaging girls on

This article will explain some abbreviations and terms you need to know. 

By the way, LBD stands for “little black dress.”


Sugar/Escort Terms:

Escorts and prostitutes are prohibited from joining Seeking Arrangements. 

But some escorts get by the filter process. You might start messaging an escort and not know it. Also, other sugar dating sites like Secret Benefits do not strictly prohibit escorts. 

I’m listing these terms first, so you know what to look out for. 


Y.M.M.V. – Your Mileage May Vary

This acronym comes directly out of the escort world. If a girl puts YMMA in her message to you that means she will have sex with you if she likes you.

On the other hand, if you and she don’t have any chemistry or she doesn’t find you attractive, she’s not going to have sex with you. 

This is what girls write if they think the guy is way too old for them. They are saying she just wants to be your dinner date or arm candy and nothing more.


NSA – No Strings Attached

No, this is not the US government National Security Agency.

This is much better. It means you get sex and a relationship without the obligations and nagging of a traditional girlfriend. It means you do your thing, and she will do her own thing. There are no expectations in this relationship. 

You will probably see this in a sugar baby’s profile. 

Tip: Be careful not to confuse NSA with FWB.


FWB – Friends With Benefits

Similar to NSA, but FWB is more relationship-ish.

You might see FWB in her profile. You might see FWB in any message that she sends to you.

FWB means she is trying to make it clear to you that she is not looking for a serious relationship. It may be only a sexual relationship, but it doesn’t have to be. It’s just a laid back friend whom you have sex with. But sex is not the focus.

Often, NSA is just your sugar baby meets you for sex, and FWB is about more.


420 Friendly Marijuana Friendly

This is a girl who wants you to know that she likes smoking pot. If you’re into smoking also, you and she will get along great. After all, she put this in her profile. 

In the last few years, I’ve seen more and more of this. 


ASP – Adult Service Provider

Most sugar babies are not so dumb as to put this in their profile, but you might get this in a message she sends to you.

This means she’s an escort. She’s a professional. Stay away.


Finally, and the last of the Escort/Sugar Dating terms is:

GFE – Girlfriend Experience

Again, you will not see GFE in any sugar baby’s profile. But, you might see this in your messaging with her.

If you see this, it means she’s most likely an escort.

In the escorting world, Girlfriend Experience means your prostitute is going to act more affectionate during your encounter.

Escorts are advertising that she is not going to lay there like a dead fish during your sexual encounter.

However, remember, escorts are prohibited on


Seeking Arrangement Terms

To round out this article here are some common acronyms that you will see on


Sugar Daddy Wanted 

While this is pretty self-explanatory, it gets a little confusing on Twitter, and Instagram hashtags. 

If you are a guy looking for a sugar baby, you use the hashtag #sugarbabywanted.

Girls that are looking for a sugar daddy will use the hashtag #sugardaddywanted.


SB – Sugar Baby

A girl who has a man financially supporting her in some way. The opposite of a Sugar daddy.


SD – Sugar Daddy

This is the guy who is supporting a beautiful young girl. In the past, it was presumed that if a girl was out of a guy’s league, he must be rich.


Not so anymore. Today, many good looking young guys are turning to being Sugar Daddies because  girls are so much hotter on



SA – Seeking Arrangements

Seeking Arrangements is the biggest sugar dating website/app out there right now. There are millions of members and the app is in approximately 150 countries.

Seeking Arrangement is a brand. Most people learn about Seeking Arrangements before learning about sugar dating.

It’s like in the past when people said Xerox machine they meant copy machines.

Tip: The Seeking Arrangements domain name is Also, the other domain name does not have an “s.”

However, the title of the company does have an “s.” i.e. Seeking Arrangements. 


Sugar Dating

This is the concept of men and women getting into a mutually beneficial relationship for financial incentive. As said above, is a company that facilitates sugar dating.


Salt Daddy

This is a derogatory term that girls use to describe guys who will not spend money on them. You will likely see this in sugar babies’ profiles or on review sites.

They are talking about a guy who doesn’t have as much money as he says he does.

These strange girls don’t realize that they may not be attractive enough and the guys chose not to spend money on them.

Be careful if you see this, if a girl puts this in her profile or message, she’s probably not worth your time or money.


Splenda Dating

This term is similar to salt dating but not as derogatory.

This is a guy who makes it clear that he does not have money to give to a sugar baby. Instead, he offers mentorship and other non-financial benefits.

This usually works best if you are a bit older.  


These are some of the most useful terms and abbreviations for you.

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