Sugar Dating Yes, Bar Scene No

Done going to bars and clubs to meet girls?

Thinking about online dating?

If so, skip Tinder, and sign up on a sugar dating app.

The Sugar Daddy Experience

Sugar dating is when you pay girls an allowance to date them. You can pay her as much or as little as you want. 

The girl you are dating is called a “sugar baby.”

Sugar dating apps are great for guys in their 40s, 50s, or 60s because we have more money than younger guys.

The sugar daddy experience is an excellent alternative to bars and clubs.


Bars and Clubs

Bars and Clubs are not perfect for older men.

Most guys stop going out to bars and clubs after about 40 years old. However, there is no reason you can’t continue to go out to bars if you still look good.

Many guys are in better shape in their 40s than they were in their 20s.

Nevertheless, if you are in your 40s, you probably don’t go out to bars.

You probably don’t go to bars and clubs because they are loud. You probably don’t go out because the crowd is younger than you.

And, you probably don’t go out because you don’t feel like staying out until 4:00 a.m. anymore.

Don’t worry, you’re not missing out. 

Sugar daddy experience
A typical group these days

Bars Suck Now

The girls in bars and clubs are not nearly as friendly as they used to be. Now, most girls go to bars only to get validation.

They are only there to take pictures of each other and post on social media.

While girls might hang out at your table for a while if you have bottle service, most girls have no intention of going home with you or anyone else.  

On top of the fact that girls are not in bars to meet guys, there are no more hot girls in bars. Hot girls can get all the validation they want on their Instagram, so they stay home.

That leaves only the “5s.” in the bars to blow guys off all night.

There is a better way.


Online Dating

If you’re not going to meet girls at bars and clubs, the next best thing is online dating.

Thankfully, online dating has become more mainstream these days. More girls are doing online dating than in the past.

In fact, if you are looking for a girlfriend, meeting a girl online is probably better than bars and clubs. Bars and clubs are good for drunken one night stands. 

But after spending five years on Tinder, and a few years before that on, I can tell you that most online dating sites suck. It sucks because there are so many desperate guys after only a few hot girls. 

But this imbalance is reversed on sugar dating websites. 


Sugar Dating

One area of online dating that does not suck is the semi-secret world of sugar dating. I say semi-secret because sugar dating is becoming more popular every day.

Sugar dating sites like are great because beautiful young girls are looking to meet older guys.

If you are going to do online dating instead of the bar scene, there is no reason not to sign up for or any other sugar dating site.

Don’t worry about the blatant financial arrangement because it does not take away from the sugar daddy experience. You will forget you’re paying her. 

Also, don’t worry about the money because you spend just as much taking regular girls out. 

The cost of sugar dating may be cheaper than you think.

If you go out to bars every Friday and Saturday night, you probably spend $100 a night all together. That’s $800 per month. 

If you meet a girl on who wants $500 a month, you actually save money. 

Remember, in sugar dating, you tell your sugar baby how much you want to spend.

If she wants more than you’re willing to spend, find another girl.

I explained how many girls are on in Why Sugar Daddies get More Girls.

(Some delusional girls will ask for $10,000.00 month but ignore them)

In conclusion, ditch the bars and sign up for the semi-secret world of sugar dating.